Your Kingdom Calling Quiz Results are in!
It's official — the oil on your life flows from
Compassion
And you carry the presence of
The Healer!
The Healer (n.) — one who carries the compassion of Christ and co-labors with Him to restore what’s been broken.
AS A HEALER, YOU CARRY A DEEP COMPASSION AND A TENDER STRENGTH THAT MAKES SPACE FOR OTHERS TO BE SEEN, HELD, AND RESTORED. YOU DON’T JUST CARE—YOU CO-LABOR WITH THE GREAT PHYSICIAN TO BRING WHOLENESS WHEREVER YOU GO. SIS, THAT ANOINTING ON YOUR LIFE? THAT'S JESUS IN YOU, LOVING
What this tells me is that you already carry some incredible spiritual gifts—even if you’re still struggling with how to walk them out (don’t worry though, we all start somewher! God is already revealing things, and I’ll help you learn to listen to the Holy Spirit's guidance for your unique Healer journey).
Your Sacred Strengths
COMPASSIONATE HEART RESTORATIVE PRESENCE
EMPATHETIC WISDOM
(It breaks for what breaks His, and it beats with His desire for restoration.)
(People feel safe with you; your very being often ushers in God’s peace.)
(You don’t just feel for people; you often understand with them, offering insights that can only come from a heart that’s known both pain and His grace.)
You’re also known as the
Empath, Nurturer, Caregiver, Teacher, Trustworthy Friend/ Confidant, Community Builder, Comforter
YOUR GIFT: Creating safe, sacred spaces for transformation and emotional restoration - you’re a spiritual midwife for breakthroughs!
YOUR MOTIVATION: To be a vessel of wholeness for others without losing yourself – because you know you can’t pour from an empty cup, no matter how much you want to.
YOUR DESIRE: To live a life aligned with deep compassion, integrity, and divine guidance – a life where your inner world and outer impact are beautifully harmonized by His Spirit.
YOUR FEAR: Being consumed by other people’s needs or never fully healing yourself – that quiet dread that you’ll always be the strong one for others, but who will be strong for you?
YOUR STRUGGLE: Discerning when to give, when to retreat, and how to receive without guilt – learning to receive is key.
YOUR PURPOSE & POWER: To embody the truth that your presence IS the offering, and healing flows most powerfully when you honor your own and allow God to tend to your heart first.
My Invitation To You:
In order to embody your purpose as a spirit-led Healer, you must release the lie that your worth is tied to fixing others. You are not their savior; Jesus is. You are already a living testimony of what is possible when softness and strength walk together, especially when that strength is found in Him.
Healer Snapshot:
Your Kingdom Calling
Let’s pause here.
You may be wondering—what exactly is a Kingdom Calling? And how does this quiz result connect to your real life?
Your Kingdom Calling isn’t just what you do. It’s who you’re becoming in partnership with God. It’s the way He invites you to reflect His nature, carry His presence, and reveal His heart—in whatever space He’s placed you. For you, Healer, this often looks like revealing His compassionate heart, His desire to restore.
And your Kingdom Identity—like the Healer—is a glimpse into how you’re uniquely wired to move with Him.
My goal in creating this is to help you see and put language to the sacred way God desires to move in and through you.
THIS IS YOUR INVITATION TO HEAL, TO COME HOME TO YOURSELF - THE SELF GOD CREATED YOU TO BE - AND TO WALK HAND-IN-HAND WITH THE ONE WHO CALLS YOU HIS OWN.
You feel deeply—and that’s never been a flaw. Don’t let anyone tell you it is! It’s a quiet, sacred power within you, one that instinctively sees beyond surface solutions and tends to what aches at a soul level.
You’ve likely seen pain, carried burdens, and held space for others again and again. Your life may have taught you that pain can become a portal, turning wounds into wisdom. People feel this in your presence; you walk with an energy that whispers, “Wholeness is possible because God is real.”
But now, God is turning the invitation inward. Listen carefully, this is crucial. You are not just a vessel for others’ healing. You are profoundly worthy of that same healing, that same deep tending, too. Your softness is sacred. Your need for rest is part of the restoration. He wants to pour into you so you can overflow, not just run on fumes.
Affirmation
“I am healed and whole in Christ. I receive His restoration for myself first, and I will minister to others from a place of His overflowing abundance.”
What this means for you...
This is a season of sacred tending—for you. God is calling you to:
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Slow down to truly feel what you’ve postponed or buried deep inside – He’s a safe place for those hidden hurts.
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Rest deeply, not just recover enough to keep going. Integrate your experiences with His grace.
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Grieve losses you never had the space or permission to name – Jesus Himself wept. Your tears are seen.
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Hold yourself with the same fierce compassion you give so freely to others – you deserve that same tenderness.
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Allow yourself to be seen and supported, not just useful or needed – it’s okay to be vulnerable and receive.
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Receive nourishment – spiritually, emotionally, physically – learning to be filled, not just constantly pour out.
This inward focus isn't a detour from your purpose; it's the way forward. Tending to your own restoration allows your life, lived fully from this place, to become its own force of healing. Healing yourself in partnership with God is how you rise in your truest strength.
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
- Matthew 11:28
Your next steps
Sis, listen closely: You’re not striving to become something you’re not — you’re waking up to who God already says you are. As you step into your Kingdom Calling and stand firm in your identity in Christ, the purpose and power you were born for will be released. It’s about receiving His healing so you can be a clearer channel of His.
ACTIVATE YOUR KINGDOM CALLING WITH THESE THREE STEPS
Your journey to becoming a whole Healer – one who ministers from overflow, not depletion – involves some intentional soul work. Here’s where to begin:
Step 1
Guard Your Wellspring
Healer, that beautiful, tender heart of yours is a direct reflection of God's own care, but it needs His protection to keep flowing freely.
Your Compassionate Heart flows best from a replenished source. This isn't optional, sis; it's essential. Your heart naturally breaks for what breaks God’s heart. You’re drawn to comfort, mend, and hold space for those in pain – it’s a beautiful, God-given reflection of His own care. And perhaps for a long time, that felt like your clearest purpose. But lately? Maybe that constant outflow feels less like holy calling and more like a slow, steady drain. Maybe you feel weary right down to your soul. If that’s you, you’re not alone.
That’s not failure or a lack of faith. That’s depletion.
You were never meant to be an infinite source; you were designed to be a conduit of God's infinite supply. You don’t have to meet every need you see or fix every hurt you feel. Giving from reserves requires reserves. Sometimes the most faithful act is admitting your own need and turning inward to receive His filling first. That’s wisdom, not weakness.
Try this:
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Find a quiet moment. Place a hand on your heart and whisper this prayer: "Lord, thank You for my compassionate heart for me. Now, help me receive Your compassion for me. Show me where I need replenishing so I can pour out from Your fullness."
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Identify one small boundary you can implement this week to protect your energy (e.g., turning off phone notifications for an hour, saying a gentle "no" to a non-essential request that isn’t yours to carry).
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Before pouring out to someone else, take 60 seconds to breathe deeply and consciously receive God's love and strength for yourself. Fill your own cup first.
Reminder:
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Caring for your own soul isn't selfish; it's essential stewardship of the precious gift He’s given you.
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You are just as worthy of the tenderness and healing you offer to others.
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True restoration starts with receiving God's rest and His direct ministry to your heart
True restoration starts with receiving God's rest.
People likely feel calmer around you. Your Restorative Presence brings a sense of God’s peace into chaotic situations. You carry an atmosphere of hope, a quiet knowing that wholeness is possible. But absorbing the emotional weight of others, day after day, can leave youfeeling frayed, anxious, or overwhelmed, even if you don't show it. Sound familiar, Healer?
That's not weakness. That's carrying burdens you were never meant to hold alone. Jesus said His yoke is easy and His burden is light. If yours feels heavy, it might not be His.
God gave you the ability to offer His peace, not to become a sponge for the world's pain. There's a difference between empathy and enmeshment. You don’t have to carry the emotional weight that belongs to others (or even circumstances beyond your control). Your most powerful presence comes when you yourself are abiding in His rest (Matthew 11:28).
Try this:
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At the end of the day (or after a heavy interaction), consciously pray: "Lord, I release [person/situation] and their burdens fully into Your capable hands. Fill me now with Your peace and cleanse me from anything that isn't from You."
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Practice a physical "release" – wash your hands, stretch, take a short walk outside – visualizing letting go of the emotional residue and breathing in His Spirit.
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Schedule 5-10 minutes of intentional stillness daily before you feel depleted. No agenda, just being quiet with God, receiving His calm and His perspective.
Reminder:
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Rest is not laziness; it's essential spiritual refueling and a weapon against burnout.
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The weight of the world is His to carry, not yours. Peace is your inheritance in Christ.
Step 2
Embrace Sacred Stillness
Step 3
Tend Your Inner Garden
That profound insight you offer so freely to others? God wants you to lavish that same grace upon your own heart, Healer.
The grace and wisdom you offer others is also meant for you. God doesn’t play favorites; His healing is for His healers too! Your Empathic Wisdom gives you incredible insight into the struggles and needs of others. You see their potential, understand their pain (often from your own journey), and know how to offer grace-filled truth. You champion their healing. But when it comes to your own heart, maybe you apply a different standard? Perhaps you’re quick to spot your flaws, slow to offer yourself patience, or dismiss your own needs as unimportant. Let’s be real, sis, do you sometimes treat yourself harsher than you’d ever treat someone you’re ministering to?
That’s not humility. That’s often a blind spot the enemy loves to exploit to keep you depleted and running on empty.
God’s wisdom and grace aren't just tools for your ministry to others; they are provisions for your own journey. You don’t have to achieve perfect healing or have it all figured out before you're worthy of gentle self-care. Applying your wisdom inward allows God to heal you, making your outward ministry even more authentic and sustainable.
Try this:
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Ask God this simple, powerful question: "Lord, what do I need right now that I might be overlooking in my own heart and life?" Listen patiently for the answer. He will speak.
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Think of one piece of compassionate advice you recently gave someone else. Now, prayerfully speak (or write) that same advice to yourself and ask the Holy Spirit to help you receive it.
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Identify one area where you hold yourself to an impossible standard. Offer it to God and ask for His grace to soften your self-judgment, even just a little. He’s gentle with you, so be gentle with yourself.
Reminder:
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Tending to your own soul is vital Kingdom work – it’s not a distraction from your calling; it is your calling.
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Your wholeness, not just your wounds, glorifies God and deepens your impact. A healed healer is a powerful force!
Affirmation
“I am healed and whole in Christ. I receive His restoration for my own heart first, and I will minister to others from a place of His sustainable, life-giving abundance.”
Some Inner Monologues which might sound familiar….
Okay, Healer, let’s peek into those quiet thoughts. Do any of these resonate deep in your spirit?
“I’m so much better at tending others than tending myself.”
“If I stop holding it all together, will everything fall apart?” (Spoiler: No, God holds it all.)
“God, how do I let You heal the places I keep hiding even from myself?”
“It feels selfish to slow down—but I know it’s necessary if I'm going to last.”
“I’m tired of being strong for everyone else.” (It’s okay to admit that, sis.)
“What if my brokenness is where my real strength is born?”
“God, show me how to be a safe place for myself too.”
“I feel everything so deeply. Is that a burden or a gift? (It’s a gift, but it needs stewarding!)
“Why does it feel like I’m holding space for everyone else… but no one’s holding space for me?” (God sees that, and He wants to be that space for you.)
IT'S TIME TO RELEASE THE BAGGAGE WEIGHING ON YOUR PHYSICAL, SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH AND UNLOCK THE IMPACT YOU ARE MEANT TO HAVE ON THE WORLD. GOD IS CALLING YOU HIGHER, DEEPER, AND INTO A NEW LEVEL OF FREEDOM.
Begin your journey of leading whole
This ain’t just a catchphrase, sis. Leading Whole is a posture, a commitment, a way of life:
It's a journey back to your authentic self...the woman God fearfully and wonderfully made.
It's the integration of body, mind, and soul...all yielded to the Holy Spirit.
It's refusing to hide parts of yourself or allow the past to dim your light...because your testimony has power, and your light is meant to shine brightly.
It's a commitment to leading your life from a deep place of awareness, connection, and truth...His truth, which sets you free.
Because who you are - just as you are - is complete, whole, and lacking nothing in Christ Jesus. Period.
“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.”- Audre Lorde
Are you ready?
READY to awaken a deeper intimacy with the Holy Spirit and be transformed into the truest, purest version of who you were called to be? I’m not just asking if you’re ready for information; I’m asking if your spirit is saying ‘YES!’ to God’s invitation. If so, invite you to walk with me on this journey of Leading Whole by stepping into your God-given Purpose & Power.
As you consider that invitation, I felt led to record this prayer specifically for you, Healer. May it bless and anchor you:
Hey sis, it's Akwése
I’m an inner-growth, spiritual formation & leadership development sponge, recovering perfectionist, self-love advocate, healer, creative storyteller, social entrepreneur, co-creator with God, Crossfit newbie, global adventurer, regular “gut” cleanser, and a daring woman of Purpose and Power whose heart's on fire for God.
See that? I'm not just one thing and neither are you. So stop trying to fit into a mold because, trust me, one box will never be big enough to capture all the beauty God placed in you.
I want to help you truly see and believe that! To know that you are complete, whole and lacking nothing, exactly as you are, because, let’s face it, YOU ARE and...
The world needs you!
Yes, YOU!
My mission is to be a mirror and living testimony, helping you discover your identity, purpose, and power in God.
I'm walking this road too, sis — believe me, I get it — and together, we'll war in the Spirit, break strongholds, heal the hidden places, and rise as bold, Spirit-filled women — walking fully in our Kingdom Calling and the authority we carry as co-heirs with Christ.
You haven't missed your moment. You aren't too much or too little. You're exactly where you're meant to be. And your next chapter starts NOW. If you’re willing to say yes to God.
P.S. A Note for Your Journey Ahead: Your Healer Companion Guide is a powerful first step (you can download it below). For those of you feeling a stirring for an even more immersive experience in a faith-filled community, I also lead the 5-Day ‘Drawing Deeper Challenge.’ It’s specifically designed to help you break free from spiritual dryness and cultivate consistent, life-giving intimacy with God so you can lead with renewed purpose and power. Be sure to open your emails from me in the coming days – I’ll be sharing more about how you can join us.
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